How do you know?

I often get asked, how do you know? I often ask myself, how do you know, when you like someone? What is it about them? I think boys are more pragmatic about it when asked, but in reality I think they are the same as girls in as much as, they know, they just know… […]

Goodbyes and Hellos…

What does Goodbye really mean? The definition is:
Goodbye: Used to express an acknowledgment of parting.
Do we really acknowledge the parting though? Do we ever truly say Goodbye? And do we have to say Goodbye, before we can say Hello? Is that in fact the point of Goodbye, is it an enabler to Hello?

Shifts in sharing your life

Isn’t it funny, how we say, that we want to meet someone to share our lives with? Doesn’t it somewhat undermine, the people, the friends we are sharing our lives with at the time? And no matter how much we tell the people, we are sharing our lives with, it won’t change when we find […]

The Firmer Years

Over a coffee yesterday afternoon Armando (a friend of mine) asked Robert (one of my best friends who you will hear a great deal about over the coming posts)
“Why is it you don’t date women over 26?”
“I feel like if I date a woman when she is 30 I would have missed out on her […]

Detox and Retox: Does it ever end?

I was talking to a friend of mine last night, we have a thing the two of us, that we always seem to be paralleling. Anyway we were chatting about an exciting new chapter that was opening in her life and the challenges that it was making her face, what was interesting was that I […]